Corona Diary 02: Life or death--Choice is yours

Coronavirus (Photo: BBC News)

Yes, there is no doubt our government was sloppy in responding to Corornavirus outbreak, and now, it seems out of place to decide what to do to tackle a crisis that is slowly getting out of their control. Ours is an underdeveloped, overpopulated and poorly educated nation, and we hardly make good decisions and take right actions in the time of a crisis. The government has made mistakes in underestimating the gravity of a global crisis and many people are likely to pay huge price for it, and in the process image of the government will ultimately get tarnished.
But, please look at what many ordinary people are doing, except for some great people including doctors, healthcare workers and generous donors across the country. They simply don't care about what the government is telling--stay home, stay safe. No, they don't really care, because we are among the least law-abiding nations in the world. We are born in droves and we die in droves, often we kill ourselves by taking stupid and unnecessary risks. I suspect lots of people will die from Covid-19 simply because of this self-killing tendency and it has probably started. Even if I die from Covid-19 now, it will be likely because I have been stupid too. Apart from staying home, we also need to do something positive and creative, so our time during the lockdown is worthwhile and well-spent. Let us read books, watch movies, dramas etc and help in household activities.
Also, please stop flooding social media with real or fake news or videos one after another everyday. We are already connected globally by Internet, and we already have enough information about the pandemic. So, please don't make people more upset about spreading more bad news. There are well placed sources to get updates on global and national figures of Covid-19 infections and deaths. So, you don't need to post it like a scorer of a cricket match hourly or daily basis. You cannot treat figures of people getting sick or dying like scorecard if you are really sorry about their suffering.
Real people make right decisions in the time of a crisis. Maybe our government has failed, but it is up to us if we would like to fail too. We may not be alive to see what happened at the end!

Corona Diary 01: The virus exposes our own evils

A road full of people at Kawran Bazar, the largest kitchen market in Bangladesh's capital Dhaka on March 22. (Photo by Rock R. Rozario)

On March 26 evening, I went outside at my neighborhood in central Dhaka to get some money from an ATM booth, and to buy some essential grocery items and vegetables. It is because unlike most people I didn't resort to panic-buying due to novel coronavirus outbreak and didn't hoard too much daily essentials for a month or so, which not only triggered a price hike but also caused misery for poor and low income people. I took my wife with me because it could be difficult to carry all the goods alone. We covered our faces with masks and walked in safe distance from people on the roads for protection.

The roads and the streets were empty and deserted, an unusual scene in this busy and crowded city, which is only seen twice a year during Eid festivals. All restaurants, eateries and fast food centers were shut, so were most shops except some groceries and vegetable stands. We somehow managed to buy what we needed for our family to survive in coming days. Staying home continuously is often boring, but this is what we all must do in this crucial time. 

During our time outside, we saw a number of Muslim men wearing skullcaps returning from mosques after evening prayer. It seemed they were still convinced nothing would happen to them for defying government order to stay home for safety and most of them didn't wear masks. They are probably on the same page with hundreds of people I saw in Kawran Bazar, Dhaka's largest kitchen market, last Sunday, buying as much as daily essentials frantically but without any protection. And of course, they have the same mindset of people who resorted to a mad-rush from Dhaka to rural areas on March 24, immediately after Bangladesh government declared 10-day general holiday to allow people to stay home to stop spreading of the killer virus. If not all, most of them thought it was a time for vacation.

We also met and walked with a Muslim man wearing a face mask and returning home with groceries. He was upset and angry like us with the response of many people to pandemic coronavirus outbreak. "How strange it is some people think this is a Chinese problem as Chinese people eat all the nasty things. Nothing will happen to Muslims as they eat halal (pure) things only," this middle-aged man said. "Saudi Arabia and Iran are suffering badly due to the virus. Are these not Muslim countries?. He went on to say,"So many people take bribes and earn black money, which they don't find haram (forbidden). They think going to the mosque and praying inside would cleanse their sins. This is ridiculous. Let them mingle together and go to heaven!"

We couldn't agree more what this man said as the world is at an unprecedented war against this deadly virus that has already killed more than 24,000 people and infected more than half a million in up to 200 countries globally. Our government and doctors, nurses and medical staff are battling hard against the tide with little resources against the virus. The world is shivering in fear and grief as even most developed nations keep counting many precious human lives lost in recent weeks. How come people in this country can be so crazy!

However, we were not surprised about the public response in the time of Corona as we have grown up seeing how much double-standards many people can maintain and how ignorant but opportunistic many people can be in this country. Not all are the same, but I think this pandemic virus is once again exposing our own evils. Whether we lose or win this difficult war will depend much on how much we can overcome these evils.

#StayHome #ItCouldSaveLives 

Ensuring equal rights and dignity for women

Mexican students perform 'El violador eres tu' (The rapist is you) during a demonstration on March 5 against gender violence and patriarchy at the Jesuit University of Guadalajara as part of the run-up to International Women's Day on March 8. (Photo: AFP)

"I accept it as a logical consequence when my husband beats me up for making mistakes" — this may sound harrowingly shocking to sane men and women but it is what many married women in Bangladesh believe, according to a recent national study.

About 25 percent of wives consider beatings by their husbands logical for making trivial mistakes or trying to exercise their rights, such as by leaving the house without the husband's permission, failing to take care of children properly, arguing with her husband, cooking badly and disagreeing to sexual intercourse, according to a 2019 study by Bangladesh Bureau of Statistics (BBS).

Whether the study reflects reality can be a topic for debate but it is well known that Bangladesh has one of the highest rates of domestic violence. A BBS study in 2013 found that more than 80 percent of married women face physical and mental abuse by husbands and in-laws in their lifetime.

Domestic abuse is a very common form of violence against women all over the world. After rape and sexual assaults, domestic violence is another major driver that results in up to 35 percent of women facing various forms of violence globally in their lifetime, according to UN Women.

When it comes to largely conservative and male-dominated societies in regions such as South Asia and much of Africa, violence against women is a common and tragic everyday reality.

Spiritual renewal, reconciliation and fraternity during Lent in Bangladesh

A scene from Jishu Nila, a folk-religious play on the life, suffering and death of Jesus, staged by a Catholic group in Bangladeshi capital Dhaka in 2017. (Photo: Stephan Uttom/UCA News)

On the first Tuesday of Lent, about 200 Catholic villagers — children, adults and the elderly — gathered in the yard of a Catholic family in Choto Satanipara, one of six villages under Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Rangmatia of Gazipur district in central Bangladesh.

From morning to afternoon, the faithful had special prayers, life sharing from elders, Way of the Cross, Mass, a special talk from the parish priest and a fraternal meal with rice, vegetables and lentils before heading back to their homes.

Nearly half of the village's 400 Catholics are non-residents who live in cities, mostly in capital Dhaka about 50 kilometers away, for reasons such as jobs and education.

The spiritual and social gathering on March 3 was part of a special village-based program during the Catholic Church's Lenten season, introduced by Dhaka Archdiocese about a decade ago.

Writers muzzled by Bangladesh's censorship

Muslims visit a stall at Amor Ekushey Book Fair in Dhaka on Feb. 19. The Supreme Court has banned two books and ordered their removal from the fair on grounds of hurting religious feelings. (Photo: Stephan Uttom/UCA News

Bangladesh's top court has banned two books by an atheist blogger for allegedly hurting religious sentiments in the Muslim-majority country that has seen a deadly rise of radicalism and brutal murders of bloggers and free thinkers in recent times.

The Supreme Court banned two books — Dia Arefin and Grandmother's Dictum — written by Darais Arag, an atheist blogger, on Feb. 26 and ordered them to be removed from Amor Ekushey Boilmela, the country's largest annual book fair.

The court also ordered Bangla Academy, the organizer of the book fair, to cancel the stall of Sristhighar, the publisher of the books.

The order was in response to a petition filed by lawyer Azharullah Bhuiyan. "The contents of both the books hurt religious beliefs and an individual's choice of clothing. The contents could incite communal riots in the country," Bhuiyan told journalists.

Officials of Bangla Academy, the state-run autonomous body for promotion of Bangla language, literature and culture, said the books had already been removed after they found "objectionable materials." They added that Sristhighar was not allocated a stall and they stopped the illegal selling of the books from other stalls.

The court decision has not gone down well with supporters of free speech.

Christians struggle in Bangladesh's literary landscape

Book hunters visit a stall at Amor Ekushey Gronthomela (Book Fair of Immortal 21). (Photo: Stephan Uttom/UCA News)

On the last Saturday of early spring, the famous Suhrawardy Udyan in central Dhaka thronged with thousands of book lovers.

The park has been hosting the month-long Amor Ekushey Gronthomela (Book Fair of Immortal 21), the largest and most popular annual literary festival of Bangladesh, for the past five years, offering more space for both book publishers and an increasing number of book hunters.

It started as an initiative of educationist-publisher Chittaranjan Saha, a Hindu, in 1972. The fair pays tribute to Bangla language martyrs of Feb. 21, 1952, who died in a clash with police during the Pakistan period upholding the rights of their mother tongue.

Since 1984, Bangla Academy, the state-funded autonomous body for the promotion of Bangla language, literature and culture, has organized the event.

However, the huge crowds at the fair pay little attention to Christian publications, largely because of their minimal presence and participation.

There are 873 stalls of 560 publishers and organizations at this year's book fair and only two of them are Christian. Some 15 Christian writers have published books so far, mostly through individual efforts and other publishers.

Portuguese saint triggers devotion in Bangladesh

A devotee kisses the statue of St. Anthony. (Photo: Piyas Biswas/UCA News)

For the past three years, Badhon Gomes has started preparing several weeks in advance for the annual pilgrimage at St. Anthony of Padua shrine in Panjora village in Bangladesh's Gazipur district.

Gomes, 30, is a Catholic from Parowan, one of 16 villages including Panjora that make up St. Nicholas of Tolentino Church (1695) of Nagari, one of the oldest Catholic churches in the country.

For the fourth consecutive year, Gomes coordinated distribution of free lunches to hundreds of devotees of the Portuguese saint during the annual feast day, celebrated on Feb. 7.

“We offered free meals to 500 devotees, but our target was more than 1,000. Due to restrictions on vehicle movements around the shrine, many devotees missed out,” the father of one told UCA News.

Christian and Hindu villagers from Parowan and neighboring Bhasania, under St. Augustine of Hippo Catholic Church, have been supporting the initiative. Between 800 and 1,200 people have received free food from Gomes’ group in the past three years.

“It is a matter of pride that we have St. Anthony shrine in our area. People believe they can receive special blessings from the great saint by serving his devotees,” Gomes added.

Panjora village houses a chapel with a small but extremely popular centuries-old statue of St. Anthony that is believed to have miraculous power to fulfil any wish of devotees.

The shrine, under Dhaka Archdiocese, is the most popular among about the dozen Catholic shrines in Muslim-majority Bangladesh. Other shrines are mostly dedicated to Mother Mary, barely attracting 5,000 to 7,000 devotees during annual pilgrimages.

This year two Masses at St. Anthony shrine drew more than 70,000 devotees including Hindus and Muslims. About 6,000 devotees attended every day during the nine-day novena preceding the feast day, church officials said.

Bangladesh tea workers: A legacy of neglect and servitude

A worker at a tea estate in Srimangal in Bangladesh's Moulvibazar district. Despite a production boom, tea workers live a life of misery due to poor wages and denial of basic rights. (Photo: Stephan Uttom/UCA News)

It's been nearly three decades and counting since Sabuj Tanti started working as a laborer at Khadim Tea Estate in the Sylhet district of northeast Bangladesh.

"This is our ancestral profession and we have no vocational skills. That's why we have been stuck here for more than 150 years," he told UCA News.

Sabuj, 43, a lower-caste Hindu from Tanti community, is the fifth generation of tea workers from his family. Yet this father of four daughters wants all his children to get out of the tea estate. Three of his daughters, except the youngest of two-and-half years-old, go to school.

"I don't want my daughters to become tea workers like me. I want them to get an education and have a better life. I didn't have the opportunity to get an education, so I have been stuck in the tea estate forever," he said.

Sabuj sees no future in the tea industry under the current circumstances.

Muslims gather for peace, tolerance and solidarity in Bangladesh

Tens of thousands of Muslims throng the grounds of Bishwa Ijtema at Tongi, Gazipur district, near Dhaka, to join Friday prayers on Jan. 17. (Photo: Stephan Uttom/UCA News)

Muhammad Alimuddin and his friends took a 12-hour bus journey and traveled more than 400 kilometers from Tetulia in Panchagarh district to Tongi in Gazipur district.

They braved the chilly winter weather with one purpose — to join tens of thousands of fellow devotees at Bishwa Ijtema (World Gathering) on the banks of the River Turag, about 22km from Dhaka.

This annual congregation is the second largest Islamic gathering in the world after the hajj in Mecca.

Dhaka’s festival of ‘kites and lights’ promotes harmony

Young people release a paper lantern during the traditional Shakrain festival in old Dhaka on Jan. 14, 2020.  The festival is hailed for its secular character. (Photo by Piyas Biswas)

As the feeble winter sun starts setting, thousands of residents of the old part of Dhaka, on the banks of the Buriganga, clamber to their rooftops — to sing and dance, and to fly kites of various colors and shapes.

As dusk descends, the boisterous crowd start releasing hundreds of paper lanterns and firework. Some flamboyant groups arrange for daylong programs including music concerts, parties and fire-breathing by brave young men.

Men, women and children from all faiths—Muslims, Hindus and Christians — greet each other and offer sweets and traditional pithas (homemade cakes).

The narrow streets of Old Dhaka get overcrowded as residents and visitors rush to celebrate the feast in whatever way they can.

This unique feast is Shakrain, which marks the start of the sun’s northward journey at the end of Poush, the ninth month of the local calendar. It also marks the end of the winter solstice and the start of longer days.

This year, Shakrain fell on Jan. 14-15.

South Asia’s rape scourge and moral degradation

Parents protest against the school authorities after a eight-year-old girl was allegedly raped by a school boy, at the Sacred Heart Convent School in Beas in India's Punjab state on December 16, 2019. (Photo by Narinder Nanu/AFP)

Seven years after the brutal gang rape and death of a college student on a bus in India’s federal capital New Delhi, a Court issued an execution order for four convicts on Jan. 7.

The 2012 barbaric assault on a 23-year-old medical student triggered massive street demonstrations and a nationwide reckoning over rape and sexual violence against women in India.

It led to changes in the anti-rape law, including the introduction of the death penalty. But changes in legislation have done little to change the scenario in India.

In 2018, India was ranked the most dangerous country in the world to be a woman due to the high risk of sexual violence and slave labor, according to a global survey by the Thomson Reuters Foundation.

Each day on average, some 100 women are raped in India. In 2016, India recorded 39,608 rape cases, at least 520 of them of children below the age of six, according to data released by the National Crime Records Bureau.

A burning flame of enlightenment for 100 years

Guests and dignitaries on stage during the 100-year jubilee celebrations of church-run St. Nicholas High School in Gazipur district near Bangladeshi capital Dhaka on Jan. 2. (Photo: Robin Noel)

Subir Kashmir Pereira is disappointed that he missed out on an event that he had been looking forward to for years: attending the centenary jubilee celebrations of his beloved alma mater, St. Nicholas High School.

Geographical distance and other complications restricted him from attending the Catholic school's reunion in the first week of January.

Pereira, 49, is a Bangladeshi-born American citizen who settled in Maryland in 2007 with his wife and daughter.

St. Nicholas, where he studied from 1988 to 1991, is located in Nagari in Gazipur district of central Bangladesh, about 40 kilometers from the capital Dhaka.

"When the school marked 75 years [in 1995], I could not attend due to personal reasons. I told myself that I would have to attend the 100-year jubilee, but I missed out again. This failure is likely to upset me for the rest of my life," said Pereira, a Catholic.

Employed at a pharmacy of a multinational company in the US capital Washington, Pereira was a youth activist back home. He is also a seasoned poet with several titles published in recent years.

He credits his days at St. Nicholas, run by the Brothers of Holy Cross, for laying the foundation for what he has become today.

Bangladesh's dismal human rights record even murkier in 2019

A suspect inside a vehicle following a court verdict last October that sentenced 16 people to death over the murder of a 19-year-old female student who was burned alive last April in a crime that provoked outrage across Bangladesh. (Photo: AFP)

Rights activists including a leading church official have blamed poor law enforcement, a culture of impunity and negligence by state agencies for the increasing violations of human rights in Bangladesh.

In 2019, Bangladesh faltered in stopping human rights abuses such as extrajudicial killings, rape and sexual violence and curtailing of freedom of expression, according to a report by Ain-O-Salish Kendra (ASK), a rights watchdog based in Dhaka, published Dec. 31.

The human rights situation overview was based on media reports and ASK investigations.

Bangladesh recorded 388 extrajudicial killings and enforced disappearances in 2019, slightly lower than 466 cases in 2018, the ASK report said.

Rape cases almost doubled, from 732 in 2018 to 1,413. A total of 76 women were killed after being raped and 10 committed suicide, the ASK report revealed.

Some 487 children were killed and 1,696 were tortured in 2019, up from 419 and 1,011 respectively in the previous year.

A total of 1,087 children were raped or sexually assaulted, a massive rise from 444 cases in 2018.

Mob beatings claimed 65 people, most under the suspicion of being child kidnappers.

A total of 142 journalists were abused and harassed by law enforcement agency members, influential people, public representatives, miscreants and ruling party leaders and activists, mostly by exploiting repressive sections of the 2018 Digital Security Act.

জীবনের গল্প

নি‌ম্নের গল্পগু‌লি (গল্প ম‌নে হ‌লেও স‌ত্যি) অামা‌দের চারপা‌শের মানুষ ও জীবন সম্প‌র্কে ক‌তিপয় ভ্রান্ত ধারণা দূর কর‌তে সাহায্য কর‌বে।

টাইল‌সের ভেজা ফ্লো‌রে পা পিছ‌লে প‌ড়ে অার একটু হ‌লেই অামার মাথা ফাটতে যাচ্ছিল, ঠিক তার অাগ মূহ‌ু‌র্তে হুইল‌চেয়া‌রে বসা ছে‌লে‌টি অামা‌কে ধ‌রে ফে‌লে। সে বলল, "‌বিশ্বাস করুন অার নাই করুন, বিগত ৩ বছর অা‌গে ঠিক এভা‌বেই অামার পি‌ঠে মারাত্নক অাঘাত পে‌য়ে‌ছিলাম।"

অামার বাবা ব‌লে‌ছি‌লেন, "যাও, যা কর‌তে চাও, ত‌ার জন্য চেষ্টা চা‌লি‌য়ে যাও। এক‌টি সফল প্রোডাক্ট তৈ‌রির জন্য তোমা‌কে পেশাদার হওয়ার প্র‌য়োজন নেই। অানা‌ড়ি লো‌কেরাই গুগল ও অ্যাপল প্র‌তিষ্ঠা ক‌রে‌ছে। পেশাদার লো‌কেরা বা‌নি‌য়ে‌ছিল টাইটা‌নিক।"

অাম‌ি অামার গুরু‌কে--৭০'র দশ‌কের অত্যন্ত সফল একজন ব্যবসায়ী--‌জি‌জ্ঞেস করলাম জীব‌নে সফল হওয়ার জন্য তার সেরা ৩টি টিপস কী। ঈষৎ হে‌সে তি‌নি উত্তর দি‌লেন, "এমন কিছু প‌ড়ো যা কেউ পড়‌ছে না, এমন কিছু ভা‌বো যা কেউ ভাব‌ছে না, এবং এমন কিছু ক‌রো যা কেউ কর‌ছে না।"

ম‌নো‌বিজ্ঞান ক্লা‌সের এক‌টি রিসার্চ পেপা‌রের অংশ হি‌সে‌বে অা‌মি অামার ঠাকুরমা‌র সাক্ষাৎকার নিলাম। তা‌কে জি‌জ্ঞেস করলাম তার ভাষায় জীব‌নের সাফ‌ল্য কী। তি‌নি বল‌লেন, "যখন তু‌মি জীব‌নে পিছন ফি‌রে তাকাবে ও দে‌খবে তোমার স্মৃ‌তিগু‌লো তোমার মু‌খে হা‌সি ফু‌টি‌য়ে তুল‌ছে, সেটাই হ‌লো সাফল্য।"

অা‌মি একজন জন্মান্ধ। যখন অামার বয়স অাট, তখন অামার বেসবল খেলার ই‌চ্ছে হয়। বাবা‌কে জি‌জ্ঞেস করলাম, "বাবা, অা‌মি কি বেসবল খেল‌তে পা‌রি?" বাবা বল‌লেন, "য‌দি তু‌মি চেষ্টা ক‌রো ত‌বেই না তু‌মি তা জান‌তে পার‌বে।" যখন অামি বয়:প্রাপ্ত হলাম, তখন বাবা‌কে জি‌জ্ঞেস করলাম, "বাবা, অা‌মি কি শল্য‌চি‌কিৎসক (সার্জন) হ‌তে পার‌বো?" তি‌নি বল‌লেন, "‌বাছা, য‌দি তু‌মি চেষ্টা ক‌রো ত‌বেই না তু‌মি তা জান‌তে পার‌বে।" অাজ অা‌মি একজন সার্জন হ‌য়ে‌ছি, কারণ অা‌মি চেষ্টা ক‌রে‌ছি।

ফায়ার সা‌র্ভিস স্টেশ‌নে ৭২ ঘন্টা ডিউ‌টি শে‌ষে অা‌মি যখন এক মুদী দোকা‌নে, একজন ম‌হিলা দৌঁ‌ড়ে এ‌সে অামা‌কে জ‌ড়ি‌য়ে ধর‌লো। অা‌মি একটু হকচ‌কি‌য়ে গেলাম, সে বুঝ‌তে পার‌লো যে অা‌মি তা‌কে ঠিক চিন‌তে পা‌রি নি। চো‌খে অানন্দ‌মি‌শ্রিত অশ্রু নি‌য়ে ও কৃতজ্ঞতাপূর্ণ হা‌সি দি‌য়ে সে বলল, "২০০১ সা‌লের ১১ সে‌প্টেম্বর অাপ‌নি অামা‌কে ওয়ার্ল্ড ট্রেড সেন্টা‌রের ধবংসস্তুপ থে‌কে বের ক‌রে এ‌নে‌ছি‌লেন।"

অামার প্রিয় কুকুর‌টি গা‌ড়ি চাপা প‌ড়ে মারা যায়। রাস্তার পা‌শে ব‌সে অা‌মি তা‌কে জ‌ড়ি‌য়ে ধ‌রে কাঁদ‌ছিলাম। মৃত্যুর অাগ মূহু‌র্তে সে অামার মুখমন্ড‌লের অশ্রু সে চে‌টে মু‌ছে দি‌য়ে যায়।

অামার বাবা, তিন ভাই ও দুই বোন হাসপাতা‌লে মা‌য়ের শয্যার পা‌শে দাঁ‌ড়ি‌য়ে ছিলাম, অার মা তার শেষ কথাগু‌লো ব‌লে মৃত্যুর কো‌লে ঢ‌লে প‌ড়ে। মা ব‌লে‌ছি‌লেন, "‌নি‌জে‌কে অামার পরম ভা‌লোবাসাময় ম‌নে হ‌চ্ছে। অামরা এমনভা‌বে প্রায়ই য‌দি এক‌ত্রে থাক‌তে পারতাম।"

হাসপাতা‌লের ছোট বিছানায় বাবা মারা যাওয়ার কিছুক্ষণ পূ‌র্বে অা‌মি বাবার কপা‌লে চুম্বন ক‌রি। বাবা মারা যাবার ৫ সে‌কেন্ড পর অা‌মি উপল‌ব্ধি করলাম বড় হওয়ার পর থে‌কে অাজ অব‌ধি বাবা‌কে কোন‌দিন অার চুমু দিই নি।

খুব মি‌ষ্টি স্ব‌রে অামার ৮ বছর বয়সী মে‌য়ে অামা‌কে রিসাই‌ক্লিং করা শুরু কর‌তে বল‌লো। অা‌মি অবাক হ‌য়ে জি‌জ্ঞেস করলাম, "‌কেন?" সে উত্ত‌রে বল‌লো, "যা‌তে ক‌রে তু‌মি অামা‌কে পৃ‌থিবীটা‌কে রক্ষা কর‌তে সাহায্য কর‌তে পা‌রো।" অা‌মি অা‌রো অবাক হ‌য়ে প্রশ্ন করলাম, "‌কেন তু‌মি পৃ‌থিবী‌কে রক্ষা কর‌তে চাও?" সে বলল, "কারণ অা‌মি অামার সব‌কিছু তো সেখা‌নেই রা‌খি।"

অা‌মি দেখলাম ২৭ বছর বয়সী একজন স্তন ক্যান্সা‌রের রোগী তার দুই বছর বয়সী মে‌য়ের তামাশা দে‌খে পাগ‌লের ম‌তো হাস‌ছি‌লো। সে মূহু‌র্তে অামার উপল‌দ্ধি হ‌লো যে অামার জীব‌ন নি‌য়ে নানা অনু‌যোগ ও অ‌ভি‌যোগ করা অামার বন্ধ করতে হ‌বে এবং জীবন‌কে অাবার নতুনভা‌বে উদযাপন করা শিখ‌তে হ‌বে।

ভাঙ্গা পা নি‌য়ে ক্রা‌চে ভর দি‌য়ে অামার ব্যাগ ও বই সামলা‌তে অামার খুব কষ্ট হ‌চ্ছিল। তা দে‌খে হুই‌লচেয়া‌রে অাসীন ছে‌লে‌টির মায়া হ‌লো এবং সে অামা‌কে গোটা ক্যাম্পাস, এমন‌কি অামার ক্লাসরুম পর্যন্ত পৌঁছ‌তে সাহায্য কর‌লো। বিদা‌য়ের সময় বল‌লো, "অাশা ক‌রি এখন তোমার ভা‌লো লাগ‌ছে।"

কে‌নিয়া‌ ভ্রমণকা‌লে জিম্বাবু‌য়ের এক শরণার্থীর সা‌থে অামার দেখা হয়। সে জানাল ৩ দিন যাবৎ সে অভুক্ত এবং তা‌কে দেখ‌তেও চরম শুক‌নো ও অস্বাস্থ্যকর লাগ‌ছি‌লো। অামার বন্ধু তা‌কে এক‌টি স্যান্ডউইচ দি‌লো যেটা সে নি‌জে খা‌চ্ছি‌লো। লোক‌টির প্রথম কথা‌টি ছি‌লো, "অা‌মরা এটা শেয়ার ক‌রে খে‌তে পা‌রি।"

মূল: সংগৃহীত
অনুবাদ: রক

A Wonderful Gift and An Extraordinary Life

Friends (Left-Right): Tony Wilson D'Costa, Philip Tushar Gomes and Rock Ronald Rozario on Holy Cassock Day at Holy Spirit National Major Seminary in Banani, Dhaka on 11 April, 2015. 

“If your friendship lasts longer than 7 years, you are no longer just friends. You are family”—is one of the most memorable friendship quotes. It has been more than ten years I have met and been in a friendly relationship with Philip Tushar Gomes, a wonderful man who decided to give up all worldly pleasures for love of God and God’s people for the rest of his life. He could have a life of his own and enjoy all the comforts that today’s extremely globalized, materialistic and consumerist modern world can offer. But by embracing ‘eternal priesthood’ Philip has made an extraordinary choice—to live a life in the service of God and His people.

More than a decade ago, I met a bunch of energetic, dedicated and witty youth activists when I joined Episcopal Commission for Youth as a member of the Executive Committee including Philip Tushar Gomes, Tony Wilson D’Costa and Lawrence Dipankar Gomes from Dhaka, Manik D’Costa and Clifton Gomes from Chittagong, Sony Ratna from Khulna and Pius Nanuar from Sylhet. From 1999-2007, I was a priesthood candidate myself and spent years in three diocesan seminaries in Dhaka. My time in the youth ministry became worthwhile and a learning experience because of these friendly people I met and worked with.

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গোড়ার কথা

ছোটবেলায় আমি বেশ লাজুক ও নিরীহ স্বভাবের ছিলাম সেটা হোক বাড়িতে, স্কুল বা বন্ধুমহলে। মনে পরে বাবা যদি কোনদিন কারো কাছে পাওনা টাকা ফেরত আনতে পাঠাতেন, তা চাইতে গেলেও আমার লজ্জা লাগতো। ক্লাস ফোরে পড়ার সময় আমাদের পবিত্র যীশু হৃদয় ধর্মপল্লীর (রাঙ্গামাটিয়া) সেবক দলে ভর্তি হই এবং ঐ বছরই কোন একদিন মিশায় সেবক হওয়ার পালা পরে। সেদিন ভয়ের চেয়ে লজ্জাই বেশি পেয়েছিলাম, আর তাই সেবকের কাজে ভুল করে ফেলেছিলাম। সাথে আমাদের বাড়ির এক বড় ভাই ছিল তাই কোন সমস্যা ছাড়াই পার পেয়ে যাই।

পরবর্তী জীবনে এই লাজুক ও নিরীহ ভাবটা কাটিয়ে উঠতে পেরেছি, এবং এর পেছনে বড় অবদান আমার দীর্ঘ নয় বছরের (১৯৯৯-২০০৭) সেমিনারি জীবন। ক্লাস নাইন থেকে বি.এ. চূড়ান্ত বর্ষ পর্যন্ত ঢাকার তিনটি ধর্মপ্রদেশীয় সেমিনারিতে নানা অঞ্চলের সহপাঠী, বড় ও ছোট ভাইদের সঙ্গে কাটিয়েছি। দেশের বিভিন্ন অঞ্চল ও জেলার নানা মানুষের সাথে পরিচয় হয়েছে—বাঙ্গালি ও আদিবাসী। একাদিক্রমে বাংলাদেশের বাকি সাত ধর্মপ্রদেশের সাথে যোগসূত্র স্থাপনে আমার সেমিনারি জীবন একটি চাবিকাঠি হিসেবে কাজ করেছে।

তবে, এ সত্ত্বেও, উত্তরবঙ্গ তথা রাজশাহী অঞ্চলে আমার ভাল কোন সংযোগ হয়নি। এর প্রধান কারণ সেমিনারি জীবনে আমাদের ব্যাচে এই এলাকার কোন সহপাঠী ছিল না। অন্যান্য ব্যাচে বেশ কয়েকজন বড় ও ছোট ভাই ছিল, বাঙ্গালি ও আদিবাসী। বাঙ্গালি যারা তাদের মুখের ভাষা ছিল হুবুহু আমাদের ভাওয়াল অঞ্চলের চলিত কথ্য ভাষা। তাদের কথা শুনে প্রথমে অবাক হয়েছিলাম, যদিও জানতাম ঐ অঞ্চলের তিনটি বড় ধর্মপল্লীর (মথুরাপুর, বোর্ণী ও বনপাড়া) প্রায় সব বাঙ্গালি খ্রিস্টানই আমাদের ভাওয়াল অঞ্চলের অভিবাসী ও তাদের বংশধর। আমার বাবার দুই মামা ও এক মাসি যথাক্রমে পাবনার চাটমোহর ও নাটোরের শ্রীখণ্ডীতে কয়েক দশক পূর্ব থেকে বসবাস করে আসছেন। ছোটবেলায় দেখতাম বাবার মামাতো ও মাসতুতো ভাই-বোনেরা আমাদের বাড়িতে বেড়াতে আসতেন। তবে সময়ের পরিক্রমায় যাতায়াত এবং সম্পর্ক উভয়েই ভাঁটা পড়ে যায়।

Tradition, spirituality and joy: Christmas carols in Bangladesh

A group of Catholics perform Borodiner Kirtan (Christmas carols) in Dhaka on Dec. 16. (Photo: Stephan Uttom/ucanews)

Hiron Patrick Gomes is a bit upset that his team lost its crown at a recent Borodiner Kirtan (Christmas Carol) contest in Bangladesh's capital Dhaka.

Gomes' team was among 17 Kirtan Dals (Carol Groups) from around the country that participated on Dec. 16 in a competition organized by the Christian Cooperative Credit Union Ltd (CCCUL), the country's largest cooperative bank.

It was the third version of the contest hosted by the CCCUL, coming just days before most Christians in the city head back to their villages to spend Christmas with family and friends.

Gomes and his team were champions last year but this year had to settle for fourth.

"We practiced for more than a week and performed quite well. We are a bit upset, but not heartbroken. In the past years, I have won many competitions and hope to win more in the future," Gomes, 32, a Catholic father of one, told ucanews.

Gomes Gomes has been an ardent kirtan fan since he was a boy and has sung in numerous carol performances in his home village of Doripara in Gazipur district, covered by Dhaka Archdiocese, one of Bangladesh's oldest and largest Catholic settlements.

"For Christians in the country, carols have special significance during Christmas season in terms of spirituality and culture," Gomes told ucanews. "I have been involved with carols since my childhood in the village. Every Christmas we used to form groups and sing carols at every house in the village."

Gomes, a professional singer, spent a few years at a diocesan seminary and his time there helped him learn various forms of traditional carols.

He is now a busy NGO worker and lives with his family in Dhaka but never misses the chance to take part in Christmas carols, whether at home or in contests.

"Carol is a soulful expression of our joy and spirituality during Christmas, our pride and heritage. We are glad that together we are back to revive and carry on our age-old tradition. I hope this will continue in the coming days," Gomes added.

A Christmas special

Kirtan is a widely popular tradition among Bengali Christians in Bhawal as well in other parts of the country and also among ethnic indigenous Catholics in the north and northeast of Bangladesh.

A dispassionate farewell to a solemn year in Bangladesh

Bangladesh's Prime Minister Sheikh Hasina and her party, the Awami League, have become intolerant of criticism since winning their third straight election in 2018. (Photo by Prakash Singh/AFP)

Every time users log into Facebook they are prompted to post “what’s on your mind” or “what have you been up to.”

Christmas is only a few days away and the year is diminishing fast so it is a good time to reflect on what Bangladesh, and the Church in particular, have encountered in 2019 and what 2020 might have in store.

The illusion of human rights in South Asia

An Indian policeman walks past as people hold a candlelight vigil in Bangalore on Dec. 6 in support of sexual assault victims and against the rape and murder of a 27-year-old veterinarian in Hyderabad. (Photo: Manjunath Kiran/AFP)

Only hours after police in the southern Indian city of Hyderabad killed in "an encounter" all four men accused of the rape and murder of a veterinarian, many people in the country exploded in wild cheers.

Men and women chanted cheerful slogans and came rushing to congratulate police, flooded them with flower petals and distributed sweets. Some even set off firecrackers in great delight.

"This is what these filthy animals deserved and the police have done a great job," some chanted as people from all walks of life, including politicians and film stars, hailed the police as heroes.

The police had assuaged public anger over a case that provoked street protests after the brutal rape and murder on Nov. 27.

Only a few people including rights activists questioned how the extrajudicial killing of the accused on Dec. 6 was permitted in a country famed as "the world's largest democracy."

Ranjana Kumari, director of the Center for Social Research, a social advocacy group, termed the police action an "utter violation" of human rights and "a total failure" of the criminal justice system, warning that India was moving toward a vigilante justice system.

There is little doubt that the accused men committed the most serious crime, but in the 21st century we cannot rely on stray bullets to deliver quick justice. This is nothing but committing one crime to obliterate another one.

The Hyderabad case represents a common feature of human rights violations in many countries in today's world, including those in South Asia.

Forgotten and invisible: modern-day slaves

Indian sex workers look out from their brothel in the red light district of Kamathipura in Mumbai. Socially conservative India, Bangladesh and Pakistan do not permit legal prostitution but all have brothels spilling with sex workers. (Photo: AFP)

In today’s modern world overshadowed by extravagant globalization, materialism and consumerism, it is very common for people to forget about people who are less fortunate.

These people with relative fortune and comfort might get a jolt if asked what they think about slavery and slaves. In most cases, the answer is likely to be simple: slavery was abolished in the 19th century.

The British parliament passed its Slavery Abolition Act in 1833 and the US government made the 13th amendment to the constitution in 1865, marking the official abolition of slavery.

However, slavery didn’t end with its abolition 154 years ago. It has just changed forms and continues to plague millions of people in the world today.  

The International Day for the Abolition of Slavery on Dec. 2 passed almost unnoticed in much of the globe as if our world today has almost pulled itself out of the curse of slavery.
The reality is that about 40 million people are trapped in various forms of modern-day slavery and one in every four victims are children, according to the United Nations.